Limbo
My life seems to be in limbo right now...and then again it's also status quo. It's amazing to me how life just keeps going day after day after day. It's not going to stop if I don't get the dishes washed. It's not going to stop because I think my kids are growing up too fast. It just keeps going. But this waiting? To find out if our life is going to drastically change? It's killing me. And I can only imagine how much it is killing T. See, we are struggling right now in the reality we are facing with T's current job. This October he will have been at this job for 5 years. Five years is the point in which you are considered "vested" with the state retirement system. Essentially after 5 years any money you've socked away in their system is now there forever...until you are able to draw from it. At this point? There is no way he will hit 20 years with the state. The master's degree he's working on right now will g...