Love you, Megan Elaine and Sara Renee. You are what have brought me through some very dark times. Thank you for wanting me to be your mom and including me in your lives.
...to our Nation's daughters. That was Jade's challenge this week. I have to admit my first reaction was that this was going to be easy, I've got three of them living under my roof. But the more I thought about it, the more I realized that I didn't want to write something fluffy or silly just for the simple fact that I have three of them under my roof. So here goes nothing. To the Beautiful Daughters of Our Nation: This world you now live in is so different from the one I grew up in. High-end technology when I was just starting in school was a VCR. And they were big. A night out as a family usually meant McDonald's, and we loved it. I love that my parents allowed me to be a child and to have fun and be silly and to have few responsibilities. I sure had fun. But I realize now that maybe I had it too easy. I say this because I am constantly telling my own daughters that life isn't always easy. That you must work and someti...
Wow! It's amazing what happens when you sleep for 8 hours one night and 9 the next! You can cope with heat and humidity and sun and crowds and traffic. After enjoying a nice yummy breakfast (I had an omelet) we packed up the truck and headed out of Granny's place and off for the big city. We were meeting Thea at the Air & Space Museum and rode the metro in the north. The metro used to scare me, but not so much anymore. The maps are pretty too. We left T at a corner where he turned towards Starbucks to do homework and not hobble around in his boot. We went the opposite way towards l Air & Space. The last time we were there the girls didn't get to see a lot of it because we ran out of time. After a pitstop in the bathroom I spotted Thea. Yay! Roomie! The 10yo was excited to see all the Apollo stuff since she did a research paper on it at the end of the school year. I took pictures on the real camera but not with my phone so no fun pictures there. I refused to make i...
Perspective. I've acquired a lot of it over my life. Wisdom comes with age, right? This last year has been full of perspective and enlightenment about myself. Realizing things I didn't know. Or more accurately didn't want to admit. I hate being wrong. I think most people do. Having kids taught me that if I expected them to own up to their mistakes that I had to walk the walk. When I mess up with them? I lose my temper, I forget to do something I said I would do, I do something that hurts their hearts? I apologize. Because they need to know that it's okay be human and make mistakes. We all do. And it's okay. But be honest. What I also hope to teach them...and I think the only way to teach is through action...is that you have to trust but you must do so carefully and wisely. And you can't have the wisdom to be cautious until you've been hurt. And the ones you least expect to hurt you are probably the...
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